One Fan Blamed Ariana Grande For Mac Miller's Bad Behavior, And Her Response Is A Must-Read

Ariana Grande wants women to know they are not responsible for their partners’ bad behavior.

On May 23, Twitter user @FlintElijah commented that rapper Mac Miller — who the singer was dating until recently — had a series of “heartbreaking” accidents because of the breakup.

“Mac Miller totalling his G wagon and getting a DUI after Ariana Grande dumped him for another dude,” Flint wrote, “after he poured his heart out on a ten song album to her called the divine feminine is just the most heartbreaking thing happening in Hollywood.”

Understandably, Grande had a problem with the statement, and her response is a must-read.

“How absurd that you minimize female self-respect and self-worth,” Grande began, “by saying someone should stay in a toxic relationship because he wrote an album about them.”

She went on to clarify which of Miller’s songs were about her — just one track entitled “Cinderella” — and didn’t stop there.

“I am not a babysitter or a mother, and no woman should feel that they need to be,” Grande wrote. “I have cared for him and tried to support [him]… but blaming women for a man’s inability to keep his sh*t together is a very major problem.”

So you might want to think twice before suggesting that a woman is responsible for her ex-boyfriend’s post-breakup lifestyle. You could end up eviscerated by a star on Twitter. 

Grande also explained that her ex has always struggled with sobriety, and while she’s never shared details about “how hard or scary” some of his issues were, it’s not on her to “fix” him. It’s a strong, decisive, and powerful statement: “I am not a babysitter or a mother.” Miller wasn’t a child for Grande to look after, nurture, or take care of. His well-being was never her responsibility, and she refuses to take the blame for his actions.

To Flint’s credit, he did respond to Grande with a note of his own.

“My sincerest apology, Ariana,” he wrote.

“First and foremost,” Flint admitted, “I know nothing about your relationship or the heartache you both feel.”

A good start!

“I in no way think that you are the cause of Mac’s shortcomings,” he continued. He also apologized for “minimizing” what both Miller and Grande have gone through, and said he didn’t intend to “stigmatize” women for ending toxic relationships.

Grande was gracious enough to accept his apology.

“Thank you for hearing me,” she wrote. “I appreciate your response. Sending love.”

Who knew the discourse on Twitter could be so healthy, civil, and informative?!

Shout-out to Grande for taking the opportunity to educate this young man. More than one person learned something from her note, I’m sure of it. 

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