Today debates whether it’s ever okay to drink alcohol in front of kids
Why you should re-think drinking wine in front of your children: Parents divided after experts say enjoying alcohol around kids can lead to problems in the future
- Research shows kids exposed to alcohol earlier in their life tend to drink sooner
- Expert says drinking in front of children can affect them and be problematic
- A mother-of-two believes a responsible attitude towards alcohol is possible
Enjoying a relaxing glass of wine at the end of the day or with an evening meal is something many parents do, despite the fact the kids are around.
While research shows children are adversely affected growing up where heavy alcohol use is prevalent, those who drink responsibly say healthy role modelling teaches responsible attitudes.
Talking about the issue on the Today show, Georgie Parker spoke with mum and Nine Kitchen editor Jane de Graff and Michael Thorn, CEO of the Foundation of Alcohol Research and Education in order to get their views on the controversial topic.
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Research shows kids are adversely affected when they grow up around heavy drinking (stock image)
The debate started with a question directed to Ms de Graff asking if she and her husband drank in front of their two boys, aged four and six.
‘At the risk of sounding like a terrible parent, yes we do, we drink in front of our children, and we always have done ever since they were very little.
‘But I believe very strongly if you’re role modelling good behaviour with alcohol and good ways of interacting with it, it’s probably not a bad thing.’
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Mother-of-two Jane de Graff (pictured) said she drank around her children but this was limited to a drink on a Thursday or Friday night or when friends visited for a meal
Ms de Graff said she believed taking a responsible approach would help her children to understand how to better interact with alcohol when they were older.
The mum-of-two said the extent of drinking in her household was limited to a drink on a Thursday or Friday night, or when friends come over for a meal.
‘I am certainly not sitting there on a Tuesday night going “Oh, I’m killing for a drink”. We think very seriously about the way we talk about alcohol and when we do have a drink it’s in what we believe is a very responsible way.’
‘If you’re modelling good behaviour I think you’re doing a good job,’ Ms de Graff added.
Michael Thorn, CEO of the Foundation of Alcohol Research and Education (pictured) said research has shown children exposed to alcohol earlier in their life tend to drink sooner
Children and alcohol: the guidelines
The National Health and Medical Research Council National Guidelines state parents and carers should be advised that children under 15 years of age are at the greatest risk of harm from drinking and that for this age group, not drinking alcohol is especially important
The NHMRC guidelines also state children under 15 should not drink at all, as they are at the greatest risk of harm.
Those aged 15 to 17 should delay drinking as long as possible
Studies show the most dramatic changes occur in the brain during the teenage years; in fact the brain does not stop developing until the age of 25
Source: National Health and Medical Research Council
Adding another perspective to the conversation was Michael Thorn, CEO of the Foundation of Alcohol Research and Education.
Mr Thorn said research shows more than one million Australian children are adversely affected by their parents’ or carers’ alcohol abuse.
He added parents were fundamental in shaping their child’s views and beliefs through role modelling – and this also extended to drinking behaviour.
He explained other research had also shown children exposed to alcohol earlier in life tended to drink sooner and have more problems with alcohol later in life.
‘We know from some studies that kids from the age of three can start to understand the circumstances under which or where alcohol is consumed – whether that’s a celebration or an argument that leads to a domestic incident.’
‘It is about modelling behaviours and being terribly responsible about that,’ he added.
The question of how culture played a role in regards to how children viewed alcohol was also factored into the debate.
‘In our family growing up it wasn’t hidden from us,’ Ms de Graff said. ‘It was part of a meal usually or part of a celebration.
‘I know when we got to a certain age we were offered some [of it] at the table – I am talking about 14 or 15.
She explained the rule in her house was you waited for wine to be offered and enjoyed this as part of a meal interaction or group celebration.
The question of how culture played a role in regards to how children viewed alcohol was also factored into the debate (stock image)
Mr Thorn also said there was evidence to suggest a European approach to drinking a small amount of alcohol with meals was less problematic.
However, he did note Australia has a heavy binge drinking culture compared to other nations so there needed to be some care taken with this.
He said while historically there had been a prevalent idea that introducing children to alcohol early by offering them small sips wasn’t a problem, science now shows alcohol has an effect on the developing brain.
‘Parents are now less inclined to give their kids alcohol, and I think that’s a good thing.’
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