Horror housemate invades my privacy and always puts me down

DEAR DEIDRE: ONE of my housemates is making my life hell.

I’m 19 and live with my boyfriend, who is 20, and some of his friends.


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One of them, who is 21, is making my life a nightmare.

She puts me down all the time, criticises my relationship and appearance and never gives us any privacy.

My partner doesn’t want to move out. What can I do?

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DEIDRE SAYS: Let him know how this woman is making you feel. Perhaps he can have a word with her.

She sounds insecure and possibly jealous. My support pack Standing Up For Yourself might help you deal with her better.

Make it clear her behaviour isn’t acceptable. Next time she has a go, leave the room.

If things don’t improve, tell your partner you are thinking about finding alternative accommodation.

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