There was a muscle-bound guy who lived nearby and I encouraged her to chat to him. If we talked about him in bed, she would orgasm more than usual.
She admitted she did want sex with him and I felt jealous. He is younger than me. I said this was not what I wanted.
She was annoyed because she felt I was moving the goal posts. Now I find she has been looking at bodybuilders on the internet.
I am worried she might go with him behind my back.
DEIDRE SAYS: Sexual fantasies involving other people are best kept for stimulating the imagination.
Acting them out can cause major problems.
Tell your wife you love her and are sorry you let your fantasies take hold and made stupid suggestions.
Say it’s important you are able to trust one another.
But you should keep up the sexual energy on the home front – using the ideas in my e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex.
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