I’m really angry at my boyfriend for keeping his Viagra habit a secret – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: I found Viagra in my partner’s pocket and I’m furious he never told me he’s using it.

I’m a gay man of 42 and my partner is 30. Although there’s an age gap we have always got along really well. We went out together for fun initially, but then we started having feelings for one another.

We are both considerate lovers and we both make a good sex life our priority.

I was taking our suits to the dry-cleaners before a friend’s wedding and found Viagra in my partner’s pocket. I asked him about it and we had one almighty row. We both said things we didn’t mean.

He said that the sex feels better and lasts longer when he takes Viagra but I’d like to have known. We haven’t had sex since. If he isn’t truthful about this, what else is he hiding from me?

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DEIDRE SAYS: Probably nothing. He has performance anxiety and wants to ensure he doesn’t let you down

That said, unless he has an underlying medical issue, he shouldn’t need Viagra at 30, and may actually cause himself arousal problems by using it unnecessarily.

If he has early morning erections they show everything is working as it should. You don’t need to pop pills to increase sexual arousal and stamina.

My e-leaflets on Sex-play Therapy and How Men Can Last Longer explains self-help.

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