My husband and I hardly have since since I've given birth and it's driving us apart

Before the baby we used to have sex two or three times a week. Sometimes I wanted it even more than my husband.

We have now been together for 12 years. I am 35, he is 38.
I am not sure what makes me reluctant to have sex now, although it does hurt at times and I get little pleasure out of it.

I know I should not feel like this but that is how it has been since our daughter was born.

DEIDRE SAYS: Having a baby is the most common disruption to a couple’s sex life but it is worth making an effort to rev up the passion.

See your doctor if sex hurts and you don’t think it is down to lack of arousal.

And suggest you and your husband start giving each other a sensuous massage to rebuild intimacy.

My e-leaflet on Massage For Couples explains.

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