{"id":179696,"date":"2023-09-06T17:39:51","date_gmt":"2023-09-06T17:39:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hotworldreport.com\/?p=179696"},"modified":"2023-09-06T17:39:51","modified_gmt":"2023-09-06T17:39:51","slug":"my-wife-had-an-affair-and-the-divorce-has-left-me-broken-ive-given-up-on-life-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hotworldreport.com\/lifestyle\/my-wife-had-an-affair-and-the-divorce-has-left-me-broken-ive-given-up-on-life-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My wife had an affair and the divorce has left me broken – I've given up on life | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE my ex-wife took me to the cleaners, I\u2019ve given up on life.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m penniless, live in a rented room and feel I can\u2019t trust anyone. <\/p>\n

Suicide is beginning to seem like the only way out. I\u2019m 48 and my ex-wife is 42. <\/p>\n

We were married for ten years and have a nine-year-old daughter.<\/p>\n

Last year, I found out she\u2019d been having an affair. It then transpired she had racked up debts in my name. But despite her behaviour, she got to keep the house and our daughter, while I lost everything.<\/p>\n

The only thing that keeps me going is seeing my daughter on alternate weekends. She\u2019s the light of my life.<\/p>\n

Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n

Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.<\/p>\n

Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.<\/p>\n

You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.<\/p>\n

The rest of the time I feel desperately lonely and hopeless. <\/p>\n

I\u2019ve tried dating apps but they only make me more depressed. I either get rejected or scammed.<\/p>\n

My friends don\u2019t know what to say. <\/p>\n

The worse I feel, the more they keep away.<\/p>\n

I just need something, anything, to make me feel life is worth living again.<\/p>\n

DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span> Life never stays the same \u2013 things will change for you.<\/p>\n

Please get help. <\/p>\n

Talk to your doctor about your depression and be honest about your suicidal feelings.<\/p>\n

See my support pack about this.<\/p>\n

Talking to friends and family really will help so try sharing how you are feeling. <\/p>\n

Contact CALM \u2013 The Campaign Against Living Miserably (thecalmzone.net, 0800 58 58 58).<\/p>\n

Dating apps aren\u2019t for everyone. Maybe heal before trying dating again.<\/p>\n

MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE<\/span><\/h2>\n

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My parents struggle to eat whilst my sister is carelessly fleecing their pension <\/h3>\n

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Sadie’s girlfriend’s brother moves in with them until he finds a new place<\/h3>\n

Pictures posed by models. <\/em><\/p>\n

Source: Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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