{"id":180372,"date":"2023-09-28T17:54:22","date_gmt":"2023-09-28T17:54:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hotworldreport.com\/?p=180372"},"modified":"2023-09-28T17:54:22","modified_gmt":"2023-09-28T17:54:22","slug":"my-biggest-sexual-fantasy-is-a-threesome-but-girlfriend-wont-consider-it-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hotworldreport.com\/lifestyle\/my-biggest-sexual-fantasy-is-a-threesome-but-girlfriend-wont-consider-it-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My biggest sexual fantasy is a threesome but girlfriend won&#x27;t consider it | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR DEIDRE: MY biggest sexual fantasy is to have a threesome with my girlfriend but she won\u2019t even\u00a0consider it.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t understand why she\u2019s so reluctant. It\u2019s fair to say that we\u2019ve always been sexually adventurous.<\/p>\n<p>So why is this where she draws the line?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m 28, she\u2019s 27 and we\u2019ve been together for three years.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Since we started dating I have always told her that a threesome is something I really wanted to try. I loved the idea of her sharing me with another woman.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>She always \u00a0said that perhaps it would happen one day.\u00a0 Yet three years later that day still\u00a0hasn\u2019t arrived.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s putting \u00a0a strain on our relationship because I can\u2019t get the idea out of my mind.<\/p>\n<p>What should I do?<\/p>\n<h3>Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n<p>Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.<\/p>\n<p>Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.<\/p>\n<p>You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.<\/p>\n<p><span><strong>DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>While a threesome may be one of your sexual fantasies, it may be that it isn\u2019t one of hers.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It could be that she is too afraid to tell you\u00a0she doesn\u2019t want to do it. She might \u00a0be worried about disappointing you so instead is putting it off.<\/p>\n<p>The last thing you want to do is force her into it \u2013 nobody should feel pressured into doing something sexual that they don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n<p>There are other ways of spicing things up without bringing in third parties and my support pack 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex explains further.<\/p>\n<h2>MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/pe0074493-JS840809478.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>My confidence is on the floor after I made a costly mistake at work<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/deidre-casebook-wc25sep-day4-comp-1-4.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>Oliver&#x27;s girlfriend is concerned at how much money he&#x27;s gambling at bingo<\/h3>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/dear-deidre\/24183063\/biggest-sexual-fantasy-threesome-girlfriend-wont-consider\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR DEIDRE: MY biggest sexual fantasy is to have a threesome with my girlfriend but she won\u2019t even\u00a0consider it.\u00a0 I can\u2019t understand why she\u2019s so reluctant. 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