{"id":181640,"date":"2023-11-16T18:57:14","date_gmt":"2023-11-16T18:57:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hotworldreport.com\/?p=181640"},"modified":"2023-11-16T18:57:14","modified_gmt":"2023-11-16T18:57:14","slug":"my-husband-hid-that-he-was-applying-for-new-jobs-now-i-cant-trust-him-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hotworldreport.com\/lifestyle\/my-husband-hid-that-he-was-applying-for-new-jobs-now-i-cant-trust-him-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My husband hid that he was applying for new jobs – now I can't trust him | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

DEAR DEIDRE: IT was only when a recruiter called my husband while I was with him that I found out he\u2019d been applying for new jobs without telling me.<\/p>\n

I feel angry and upset that he thinks it\u2019s OK not to inform me when this will affect me too. I wonder what else he\u2019s keeping from me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m 32, he\u2019s 33 and we\u2019ve been married for two years. I don\u2019t have a problem with him getting a new job. The one he\u2019s in doesn\u2019t pay that well and he\u2019s miserable. But at least it\u2019s secure.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m worried that if he leaves for a new role, it will affect our chances of getting a mortgage for a new flat. Most of all, I feel hurt that he\u2019s keeping his job hunt a secret from me.<\/p>\n

The recruiter who called had clearly interviewed him. If I hadn\u2019t been with him, I\u2019d never have known.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Am I overreacting, like he says? Should he have told me? I tell him everything and now worry I can\u2019t trust him.<\/p>\n

Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n

Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.<\/p>\n

Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.<\/p>\n

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DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>Perhaps your husband didn\u2019t want to tell you because he was worried about failing, or disappointing you. <\/p>\n

He hasn\u2019t been deliberately dishonest, but it\u2019s understandable why you\u2019re feeling hurt.<\/p>\n

Explain why you\u2019re so upset. Tell him you\u2019d like him to be transparent about things that affect you both in future.<\/p>\n

My support pack, Looking After Your Relationship, should help.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Offer to help him with his job hunt, so you feel included.<\/p>\n

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